posted 04-14-2009 08:58 AM
Barry,Good points.
I don't often read the public forum because I have a sneaky suspicion that many of the posters are shills.
This one is articulate, detailed, and engaged in the conversation - almost obsequious in her appreciation for all the advice, info, and vicarious para-professional counseling.
Yet, she can't find a moment of courtesy to press the return key an extra time and make a nice readable paragraph.
Trying to impose an operational definition during the pretest may help, but does not solve the problem of a succinct test question.
I am of the opinion that a good test question should be clearly understandable by an average PO on their second day at work.
Sure, an operational definition helps. But it won't fix the problems perfectly.
In this case, if I were the counselor, I'd be trying to impose some clarity of understanding that the husband has admitted to several "dates." He was meeting alone for personal/emotional/social reasons with a woman to whom he was attracted (not his wife), for no legitimate business and no good reason. He's simply re-labeling it (lying), and saying "it wasn't a date." OK, what was it? Dinner? Coffee? Lunch? Movie? How much you wanna bet he touched her physically? Hug? Touch hand? Touch shoulder? Standing close in line? Casual bump into...? Nothing good can come from that for someone interested in building a happy marriage. These are decision points in which the marital atmosphere from one of honesty to dishonesty, and from authentic to fake - when the relational momentum in changes from moving towards each other to moving alongside/parallel, or away from each other.
You get the picture.
I think its fairly obvious that the husband (assuming this is real) is lying about the date question at the very least.
This poster, if she is real and not simply enjoying the attention and info from us polygraph people, has herself turned the issue from one of the condition of her relationship into a polygraph issue.
Excellent deflection.
Assuming this is a real person, the question is not about the polygraph - its about what does she want from her relationship with her husband. The polygraph has simply informed her that she might be wiser to not completely believe him yet.
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